Is Your Relationship Working or is it Stuck

My husband Tom and I have been married for 42 years. When people hear this the comments come thick and fast. Everything from ‘How wonderful!’ to ‘You don’t get that long for murder ha ha’ .

When people ask how we have managed to stay married for that long I usually say in a joking manner ‘We just didn’t get divorced!’ I can honestly say that there were times in our marriage that that was true. Now I am able to say that I’m glad that I didn’t get divorced because now I know that having Tom in my life makes my life greater. So what has changed?